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How to Ask for LinkedIn Recommendations (With Examples)

Ask scripts that make LinkedIn recommendations easy to say yes to, how to write ones that get reciprocated, and where written proof actually moves buyers.

Dan — Founder, SocialKit8 min read

A LinkedIn recommendation is a written endorsement from a first-degree connection that appears on your profile with their name, photo, and headline attached. You request one through the Recommendations section, and you can review it before it goes live. Most people have two of them from 2016, and the reason is not that clients are unwilling — the standard ask ("Would you mind writing me a recommendation?") hands someone a blank page at the exact moment they were about to close the tab.

The fix is mechanical: ask at the right moment, name the specific project, name the specific result, and offer a draft they can edit or bin.

Recommendations vs. Endorsements: Only One Matters

Skill endorsements are one-click: a connection taps a button next to "Copywriting" and a number increments. Recommendations are written prose with a named author.

EndorsementsRecommendations
Effort to giveOne click5–15 minutes
What it provesSomeone recognizes the wordSomeone worked with you and can describe it
Buyer trustLow — trivially reciprocalHigh — reputational risk for the writer
Useful in a pitchRarelyYes, quotable directly

Endorsements accumulate through reciprocity loops between people who have never worked together, and buyers know it. Recommendations carry weight for the opposite reason: the writer attaches their own professional reputation to a claim about your work, publicly, under their real name and employer.

Stop farming endorsements. Five detailed recommendations beat thirty vague ones, and both beat any endorsement count.

The Three Ingredients of an Ask That Works

1. Proximity to the win. Ask within a week of a visible result — a project shipping, a launch landing, a renewal, praise arriving in your inbox. A client who was delighted in March will struggle to remember specifics in September, and the vagueness shows in the copy.

2. A named project and a named outcome. "Would you write me a recommendation?" makes the other person reconstruct your working relationship from memory. "Would you write a few lines about the site migration — particularly the part where we cut the launch timeline?" gives them a subject, a scope, and a point.

3. A draft they can edit. People skip this because it feels presumptuous. It is not — you are removing the blank page, which is the actual obstacle. Frame the draft as disposable and most people change two sentences and send it. Some rewrite it in their own voice, which is better still.

Add a fourth if you can: an exit. "No pressure at all if this is a busy stretch" costs nothing and removes the awkwardness of a non-reply.

Ask Scripts

Send these as a message first, then trigger the formal LinkedIn request once they say yes — a conversation gets a better answer than a notification.

The client, just after delivery

Hi Maya — genuinely glad the onboarding rebuild landed the way it did. Would you be open to writing a short LinkedIn recommendation about it? To make it a two-minute job, here is a draft you can edit, rewrite, or throw out:

"[Name] rebuilt our onboarding email sequence over six weeks. She started by reading three months of our support tickets — which nobody asked her to do — and rewrote the first five emails around the questions customers were actually asking. The result was [specific outcome], plus noticeably fewer confused replies in week one. Easy to brief, never needed chasing."

Change anything that does not sound like you, and no pressure at all if this is a busy stretch.

The long-term retainer client

Hi Tom — we are coming up on a year of working together, which feels like a decent excuse to ask a favour. Would you write me a LinkedIn recommendation? The angle I would find most useful is reliability — that you have not had to think about the content calendar since last spring. Happy to draft it if that is easier.

With a retainer there is no single dramatic win, so anchor on consistency over time — persuasive to any prospect worried about hiring someone who fades by month three.

The collaborator or subcontractor

Hi Priya — I would like to write you a recommendation for the Halcyon launch, specifically how you handled the scope change three weeks in. Any angle you want me to emphasise? Happy to swap if you would like, but no obligation either way.

Leading with giving is not a tactic, it is just the version that works. Reciprocity is close to automatic between people who enjoyed the work.

The follow-up, 10 days later

Hi Maya — bumping this once in case it got buried, then I will leave you alone. Completely fine if it is a no.

One follow-up, then stop. A second nudge converts almost nobody and costs goodwill.

How to Write One That Gets Reciprocated

Writing recommendations for other people is the highest-yield, lowest-competition activity on the platform, because almost nobody does it unprompted. The recipient gets a notification with your name on it, reads it carefully, and often writes one back unasked. Write it the way you would want yours written:

  • Open with context, not an adjective. "We hired Priya to untangle a six-year-old Shopify build" beats "Priya is a fantastic developer."
  • Name one specific moment. A decision they made, a problem they caught, something they did that was not in scope.
  • State an outcome. Qualitative is fine — "we stopped losing a day a week to manual exports" is concrete without disclosing anything confidential.
  • Say who should hire them. "If you are a small team with a legacy build and no in-house dev, she is the person" makes it useful to a stranger reading cold.
  • Keep it tight. Three to five sentences reads as considered; fifteen reads as a reference letter and gets skimmed. LinkedIn allows plenty of room — our social media character limits reference has the counts — but length is not the point.

Send it unannounced. The surprise is most of the effect.

Where Recommendations Actually Influence a Buyer

Recommendations rarely convert anyone on the profile page alone — few prospects scroll that far below the fold before deciding to contact you. Where they genuinely earn their keep:

  • Late-stage due diligence. Someone is already interested and checking whether you are real. Two detailed recommendations from recognisable companies settle it.
  • Quoted in a proposal. Pull a line into your pitch deck, attributed by name and role.
  • Pinned in Featured. A screenshot moves the recommendation above the fold, where people actually look.
  • Referenced in your positioning. The language clients use about your value beats the language you invent for yourself. Mine your recommendations when you rewrite your LinkedIn About section and tighten your profile end to end — including the headline, where a client's phrasing often outperforms your own.
  • As feed content. The big one, and where most people leave value on the table.

Turn Each Recommendation Into a Post

A recommendation on your profile is a static asset waiting to be discovered. The same words in the feed reach people who have not thought to look you up — the difference between social proof as an active content strategy and a trust badge you install once.

The post that works is not a screenshot with "so grateful" above it. It is the story behind the recommendation, with the quote as the payoff:

  1. The situation the client was in before you started
  2. The decision or approach you took, and why
  3. What happened
  4. The quote, at the end, with a name and role

That is a case study disguised as a thank-you — one of the few formats where publishing praise about yourself does not read as bragging, because the useful content is the method, not the compliment. It fits neatly into the wider system in our guide to using LinkedIn as a freelancer, and the same assets feed the relationship side of a deliberate LinkedIn networking strategy.

Ask permission before quoting anyone publicly, even though the recommendation already is. "Mind if I share this in a post?" often surfaces extra detail too.

Then reuse it. One client story works as a LinkedIn text post, a shorter X post, a carousel, and an Instagram or Threads post with different framing — the one-source, many-platforms approach applied to proof instead of blog content. In SocialKit you compose the story once, customise caption, hashtags, and media per network, and drop it into the calendar for a strong LinkedIn posting window rather than publishing whenever the recommendation happened to arrive.

What it will not do: SocialKit has no social inbox and no listening feature, so it will not surface praise or collect testimonials for you — chasing the recommendation stays your job. It handles the part after, so proof gets published on a schedule instead of dying in a screenshots folder. Plans start at €29/month for Solo (€17.40/month billed annually, as of June 2025), all eleven platforms included, with a 7-day free trial.

Start Here: A Two-Week Sequence

If you have fewer than five recommendations, this is the order that works:

  1. Day 1 — List five people. Anyone you delivered visible value to in the last 12 months. Clients first, collaborators second, former managers third.
  2. Day 1 — Write two recommendations, unprompted. The two people you most enjoyed working with. Send without mentioning reciprocity.
  3. Day 2 — Send three asks. Use the scripts above: named project, named outcome, a draft, an exit.
  4. Day 3 — Fire the native requests. Only to people who already said yes, so the notification is expected.
  5. Day 12 — One follow-up. Non-responders only. Then stop.
  6. Day 14 — Publish the first story post. Take the strongest recommendation, write the case study behind it, schedule it. Queue a second for three weeks later.
  7. Ongoing — Ask once per completed project. Build it into your offboarding email so you never have to remember.

The habit is worth more than any single recommendation. Four or five specific, quotable client stories a year gives you proof for your profile, your proposals, and your feed at once — for about twenty minutes per project.

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